Former BBNaija housemate Doyin David has advised women to use their money for other things like donating to orphanages rather than spending on men.
Doyin who’d earlier reacted to a viral video of a man who’d dumped his ex despite her taking care of him financially, further made the call to women when a woman narrated her experience catering for man.
The reality TV star stated that women could also treat themselves to nice meals rather than spending money on their men which she heavily discouraged.
She wrote:
“You see why I always say never ever give your money to a man that hasn’t done anything for you. You simply cannot know the true attitude of a man till he has some money to throw around. For you mental health, avoid poor men.
Ladies please if you don’t have anything to use your money for please look for orphanage homes to donate to, look for investments to put your money into or maybe even use the money to eat good food.
What in the name of pick me would make you spend all your money on a man that does nothing for you??Are you ladies under a spell??”
A lady has proceeded to the BBN star’s DM to share her story:
“I got to same idiot he ruin me financially
ND emotionally finally beat me up because of his side chick ..at a young age, because how the hell did I marry a beast..I moved out ‚with my cute son starting from scratch”
Doyin replied:
“Ive gotten so many dms like this. I’ll say one thing.
Please for the love of God, your mental health and your kids……do not let your only source of income be the money your man gives you.
You need to be making your own money. If shit hits the fan and he starts acting like he was the one that was suppose to be sent to hell instead of the devil…..your money will be your only life line. We all pray for loving partners but the truth is some of us will end up with beasts and you need a way out. If you don’t have a source of income of your own…you’ll suffer o”
