The daughter of veteran Nollywood actor John Okafor aka Mr Ibu, Chioma Jasmine Okafor, has ended her 9 month marriage to her husband after discovering he has 3 children from a previous marriage.
According to Chioma, she had filed for divorce after discovering the truth about a man whom she admitted was a great husband. She however said that she could not forgive the lies.
She had discovered the truth from her husband’s mom and decided that she would rather love her husband from a distance.
She lamented the end of the ‘best 9 months’ of her life but reiterated that she no longer trusted him and could not be with him anymore.
She wrote:
This was the best 9 months of my life!
I have no regrets whatsoever! I just won’t settle for a lie regardless! I forgive easily, I remember asking you about this severally before we started! Finding out today from your mum, really broke me! A foundation built upon a tiny lie won’t stand! I love how you loved me! But hate how you never mentioned your divorce nor kids to me! Moving on I don’t think I want anybody else! Just gonna love you from a distance!
My marriage was so beautiful, and full of love, my husband literally worshiped me! I don’t know if anyone is ever going to love me like he did! But this one lie ! I can’t forgive! I have filed a divorce today! I found out today that he has 3 grown up girls ! 3? Never told me he was married and divorced! Yes he’s divorced ‚but still doesn’t change anything! I married a single loving husband! I won’t settle for less! I love him so much! I appreciate all the love you showed me!
You showed me a different version of love ! I appreciate but I can’t settle for a tiny lie! I can’t forget! I won’t forgive! I don’t owe anyone explanation! ! Don’t ever lie about your age for any reason!
I love you MD
I posted this because I know, you will do everything to make sure we reconcile! I want it so bad to spend forever with you! I do! You are perfect in your loving! But no! Not with this tiny lie ! I would have still married you if you had told me! I would have! Now I can’t trust you no more!
That shit hurts! I don’t need anyone to advise me on anything!
I love my husband till forever! But I can’t forgive this lie
Fuck anyone that has anything to say!
If I ever feel the need to forgive and forget! I might reconsider my decision! But until then!
I will love you from a distance! I feel the love !
But the hurt is more
It was so beautiful! It was so perfect
Until it was a lie
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Recall, Jasmine had celebrated their anniversary just days ago as she revealed that they were expecting twins. She had met her husband on Tik Tok and got married not long afterwards.